You are as expansive as God is.
When you have a desire, the expansion is immediately given and the desire is created. However, when you focus on the facts of "what is," you restrict your desires and resist what you are built to become. Instead, stay true to what you've already launched into this vibrational reality and keep aligning to that. Care more about your frequency than you care about the "facts" of this world.
It's that simple.
Ignore "what is" and live in future-presence. By staying focused vibrationally, you will be in agreement with the universe and you will transform the outer conditions as they meet you one by one.
Stay true. Have faith and your desires shall manifest to the physical senses.